About us

UndercoverLovers.com is the UK and Europe’s largest dating site for married people seeking extramarital affairs and the only one run by women.

Established in 2008, we’ve been providing a safe and discreet meeting place for like-minded married and attached people to meet for over 5 years. Our members have one thing in common – they’re all looking for a little romance and excitement outside of their current relationship. Whether that's a flirtatious chat, a regular dinner date, or a full-on illicit affair, it’s your choice.

UndercoverLovers.com provides a non-judgemental, pressure free environment for our members. Unlike other similar sites, we have an almost even 50:50 sign-up ratio of women and men which means that neither gender is outnumbered or overloaded with messages and everyone can find what their looking for

We take the safety and anonymity of our members very seriously, which is why we provide one of the most secure platforms in the online dating market. We will never share any of your personal data or contact information.

With over 650,000 members across the UK, you're sure to find your perfect match - or matches! It’s FREE to register on Undercover Lovers and begin your search. Creating your profile is quick and simple. We also recommend you upload a photo, even if you choose to disguise your appearance as members with photos receive up to 5 times as many responses as those without.

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So what are you waiting for? Meet your Undercover Lover today...


Undercover Lovers is a member of the Interactive Dating & Entertainment Limited Partners Network. The Interactive Dating & Entertainment Limited Partners Network is the white label dating division of Interactive Dating & Entertainment Limited (Company Number 04473833) .